upsets oneself (verb) fret: worry, be annoyed
Sinonime: affront,
agonize,
anguish, bleed,
bother,
brood, carp, carry a heavy load,
chafe,
chagrin, distress oneself, eat one's heart out, fume,
fuss, get into a dither,
grieve, lose sleep over, mope, pother, stew, sweat it out,
take on,
torment, upset oneself
Antonime: calm,
comfort,
soothe